Arvada soldier killed in Iraq
Rocky Mountain News
Published September 5, 2008 at 1:42 p.m.
Updated September 5, 2008 at 1:43 p.m.
Staff Sgt. Kennith Mayne talked to his mother two hours before he was killed early Thursday in Iraq.
"He was tired," Michelle Benavidez, 47 of Arvada, said of her son. "He wanted to know where his beef jerky was. We would make beef jerky and send it to him, along with candy and toys."
Mayne, 29, was killed when his Humvee was hit by an roadside bomb outside of Baghdad. He was assigned to the 4th Infantry Division, based at Fort Hood, Texas.
Born in Bellflower, Calif., he moved to Colorado when he was 2 years old. He graduated from Arvada West High School in 1997.
He joined the Army at his mother's insistence when he turned 18 .
"He wasn't really good at high school and I told him, 'You need to pick a branch of the military,' and he picked the Army," Benavidez said.
"He loved it and decided to make a career out of it. He loved the military and he was very proud to serve his country," she said.
Mayne was originally assigned to the 101st Airborne, and was first deployed to Iraq in 2003, as part of Operation Iraqi Freedom.
He returned after a year, and was stationed in various states. He switch to the 4th Infantry because the division was to be transferred to Fort Carson after the latest deployment.
"He had been in the South for 11 years and he wanted to come home," said his mother. "He loved being in Colorado."
Mayne was deployed to Iraq in March this year, and had come home on leave in July.
"We went golfing and fishing a lot," recalled Benavidez.
Mayne would call his mother several times a week when he was deployed overseas. In their conversation Thursday, he also talked about his plans to take his parents to Jamaica for a week after he returned.
Benavidez also said she had talked to her son about the dangers of being in Iraq.
"He said he was trained, and he believed in what he did," she said. "If he had to, he was willing to die for his men, or for the people of Iraq, if that was what he needed to do."
Mayne was especially fond of the children he would meet while on patrol.
"He loved giving toys to kids," said Benavidez. "I would send him Hot Wheels, soccer balls and coloring books. He had great empathy for the children of Iraq."
Benavidez said the family was devastated by Mayne's death.
"He was a hero," she said. "He believed what he was doing over there. Regardless of why we went into the war, he believed he was doing good with the Iraqi people."
Services for Mayne will be in Colorado, although a date has not been set.
Besides his mother, he is survived by his stepfather, Dan Benavidez, sisters Christina Biederman and Jennifer Morman, and a brother, Danny Benavidez, all of Arvada.
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September 5, 2008
1:57 p.m.
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Buckwheat writes:
God be with you SSgt Mayne. Thank you for your sacrifice. Such a shame, my condolences to the family.
September 5, 2008
3:05 p.m.
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SlouchingTowardBoulder writes:
Thoughts and prayers go out. I pray that you are now with God our father.
To the family, our thanks and appreciation for your son's ultimate sacrifice in keeping us safe.
September 5, 2008
3:16 p.m.
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mayday writes:
Rest in Peace Sgt Mayne... Thank you for your service
My thanks and condolences to his family... I'm sorry for the loss of your son...
September 5, 2008
8:26 p.m.
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aztlan99 writes:
Bobby u must be a lifer or an officer. When I was with the First Mar Div in Iraq, i was there for the man next to me, not the hajis. Lets tell it like it is.
September 5, 2008
9:45 p.m.
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masonp77 writes:
how is wishing a departed soldier peace in death, or their family condolences, backhanded?
i'm at a loss.
no one here until you, bobby, politicized the death of this brave soldier. and assuming the political leanings of those who posted by their brief messages, says to me that you have a chip on your shoulder that would be better aired where it's appropriate.
my prayers go out to the family in this time, and my thanks to ssgt mayne for his sacrifice.
September 6, 2008
7:50 p.m.
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jamies_wife writes:
to those who didn't know Ken, he was a wonderful person with a great sense of humor. He was our roomate in Texas before they deployed. I helped Ken get his bags packed but never thought I wouldn't be graced with his presence again. He and my husband Jamie are like best friends. It is devastating when you lose someone that you have gotten to know as well as my family did Ken. My son loved him like a big brother. I wish his mom Michelle peace with this as she mourns the death of Ken. We will all miss him dearly. R.I.P Ken
September 8, 2008
4:39 p.m.
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Tami13 writes:
Thank you all for your kind words. I loved my cousin very much and he was willing and happy to make the sacrifices required of him. Please support our troops, both abroad and at home. They are true heros.